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Guides

What to know before you choose: the size, the metal, the closure, how made to measure works, and the questions we get most.

Guides

How to measure for a collar

Use a tape measure, exactly where the piece will sit.

Measure snugly against the skin, without a finger underneath: we work from that measurement and add the extra room for a perfect fit ourselves.

Not sure? Book an appointment and we'll measure together, so you don't end up with a piece that almost fits.

Every step, for each measurement

Frequently asked questions

Can't find your question? Ask us
How do I know which measurement to give?

Use a tape measure, exactly where the piece will sit. Measure snugly against the skin, without a finger underneath: we work from that measurement and add the extra room for a perfect fit ourselves. Each product page tells you which measurement we need, with the range and the steps.

Still not sure? Book an appointment and we'll measure together.

How to measure for a collar
How long does it take?

Allow 6 to 8 weeks from your order to dispatch, depending on the piece. We only start making it once you've ordered, so the time goes into the work, not the shipping.

Need it by a particular date? Ask us before you order.

How made to measure works
Can I exchange or return a piece?

Yes, within fourteen days of receiving it, without giving a reason. Let us know by email, and you then have another fourteen days to send it back. We'll refund you using the same payment method within fourteen days of hearing from you, though we may wait until the piece has arrived back with us.

The exception is a piece made to your measurements. It's made for you, to the size you give us, and can't be sold to anyone else. The product page tells you which pieces this applies to before you order.

That's why we ask for your measurements so carefully: we can't adjust a piece afterwards.

Is it kind to the skin?

Most of our work is 316 stainless steel, hand-polished until it shines like chrome, and a few pieces also come in Grade 2 titanium. Both are kind to the skin. Stainless steel does contain nickel, though, so if you have a nickel or metal allergy, choose titanium.

For the same volume, titanium weighs about half as much as steel, has a slightly duller colour and costs more. The round collar and the round cuffs come in both. Each product page tells you what the piece is made of.

How do I clean it?

With water and mild soap. Avoid abrasives, as they damage the hand-polished finish.

Can you make something that isn't in the shop?

That's exactly what we do. Heavier or finer, a different closure, a size outside the range, or something completely different that you thought didn't exist anywhere. Ask us, and we'll tell you whether we can make it.

Request a custom piece
Do you ship abroad?

Yes, we deliver worldwide. Marcel’s work is worn in the United States, Brazil, Canada, Australia and New Zealand, among other places.

Within the European Union, you check out in the shop. Outside the EU, choose your country in the basket and request a quote. We'll work out the shipping and email you the quote.

Can I see it in person first?

Steel is hard to photograph: you only see how the light catches it when it's in your hand. Indecent Wear in Beverwijk has a selection in store.

Would you like to see it in our workshop, or have us take your measurements together? Just book an appointment.

Book an appointment
How will my order arrive?

Your order arrives in a plain, unmarked box, with no Damax logo or name.

The sender on the label reads: M.Dikkerboom.

Your bank statement shows: M.Dikkerboom.